Have you heard about Adolescence? If not, you’re likely one of the few. This Netflix series quickly skyrocketed to the top people’s watch list, leaving an undeniable impact on viewers everywhere. It’s not just a captivating show in terms of how it was made; it’s a powerful, eye-opening look at the world our children and young people are growing up in today.

But beyond the gripping storyline, Adolescence has shone a spotlight on a dark corner of the internet that many haven’t been aware of and stirred hearts to see long-lasting and positive change. 

The series follows a 13-year-old boy who is charged with murder, diving into the toxic worlds of cyberbullying, online abuse, and the dark corners of the internet, including the toxic “manosphere.” It brings to light the frightening reality of how much time our young people spend online, exploring a space that can be both exhilarating and, unfortunately, harmful. As writer Jack Thorne puts it, “Role models can have a huge impact on people. But truthfully, we’ve got to change the culture they’re consuming.” 

In a world where negative voices often drown out positivity, the work we’re doing through SAMS is more essential than ever. Amid this raw reality, we cling to a reality of hope—the kind of hope that doesn’t disappoint. A hope that’s not just wishful thinking but rooted in the deep love and grace of Jesus. We’re creating real change by through supporting children and young people, who are living in a world filled with harmful messages of fake success and toxic masculinity as well as many other cultural issues. We believe that Jesus offers a different narrative—one of meaning, purpose, hope and value.  

Right here in our own community, in Tadley and the surrounding villages, we’re starting to see real transformation. Through the our work with SAMS we’re empowering the next generation, one that is learning the value of compassion, kindness, and healthy relationships. By providing emotional and mental well-being support and working closely with local schools, churches, and community hubs, we’re helping break cycles of poverty and shaping a culture that uplifts and inspires. This is more than social justice work—it’s a movement of hope. A reflection of the Kingdom of God coming alive in practical, tangible ways. 

The partnership between SAMS and Tadley Men’s Shed is a perfect example of how the narrative for many young boys can be positively impacted. Every week, primary school students are joining the men at the Shed, learning valuable life skills while spending time with positive male role models. These aren’t just any skills—they’re about building character, resilience, and the kind of meaningful relationships that stand in direct opposition to the harmful messages about masculinity that often dominate the conversation. 
The results have been incredible. Students are learning valuable life skills, from problem-solving and resilience to building meaningful friendships across generations. 

• Boys are learning that being a man isn’t about suppressing emotions or toughening up—it’s about connection, vulnerability, and trust. 

• They’re seeing firsthand that building relationships takes time and effort and that real friendships are based on mutual respect and shared experiences. 

• They’re developing problem-solving skills and resilience, learning how to face challenges with a clear mind and a compassionate heart. 

• They’re discovering the power of community, and the importance of supporting one another through both struggles and triumphs. 

• Perhaps most importantly, they’re seeing glimpses of a greater truth—that we were created for connection, for grace, and for a life lived in love. A hope that is found in Christ and shared through everyday actions. 

These lessons are critical in fighting against the dangerous culture of toxic masculinity that often teaches young men to isolate themselves, suppress their emotions, and act out of fear and insecurity. The Men’s Shed is actively working to rewrite that narrative—one where compassion, kindness, and emotional connection are just as valuable as strength and independence. The partnership between SAMS and The Mens Shed is not just rewriting a cultural narrative—they’re reflecting the heart of Jesus, who invites us into community and wholeness. 

We are excited to see these transformations unfold. What’s happening in Tadley is more than just a series of positive changes—it’s a cultural shift that’s redefining what it means to be strong, kind, and compassionate. We’re creating a generation of young people who are not only resilient but who also understand the importance of community, connection, and compassion. Hope is alive. Change is happening. And Jesus is at the heart of it.